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Current Situation: Chris Stapleton

Last week, my civilian neighbor stopped by with a bottle of wine and asked if she could (and I quote) “be on my Deployment Team?” My neighbors here in Texas (mostly civilians at this duty station) are aware that my husband is downrange, but this was a first for me. I asked her what she thought my “Deployment Team” was, and she replied, “You know, the one that cooks for you, watches your kids, and just keeps you from crying all the time.”

WOW! What an offer! I didn’t even know such a team existed, but I thanked her and told her that she was more than welcome to be on my Deployment Team, and I would update my roster immediately!

But then I got to thinking… do I even have a Deployment Team anymore?

I am an Army wife of 21 years with multiple deployments and separations under my belt, so I don’t know if I could even call my team a Deployment Team anymore. I think my team has morphed into a CST: Current Situation Team.

Deployments are just a part of what life throws at us in the Army (or civilian life), and every day seems to bring different challenges that have me reaching for my roster of support.

So my “team” doesn’t just get activated during deployment. It is a 24/7, on call, Current Situation Team whose expertise is diverse and invaluable.

My CST can handle war, teenagers, family issues, internal strife, and dead car batteries on a daily basis. Whatever the Current Situation is, my roster of experts can handle anything I bring to them and help me through it.

So, who is on my roster? In no particular order, my roster includes my Battle Buddies, Jesus, and Mr. Chris Stapleton.

My Battle Buddies range in age and experience, but most of them have (at one time or another) waited on their spouse to come home. This part of the roster has been carefully collected and tested over the past 20 years. Some are veterans and some are rookies. Some I call frequently, while others are “ringers” for specific situations.

Nothing I say sounds idiotic to them, and no time of day or night is off limits for a call or text.

My faith is always on the roster. If I had to pick the MVP on my CST, it is always the same selection. I know Jesus is holding me up no matter what burden I am carrying. My faith is the foundation that guides me through every valley and the reason I can celebrate on the mountaintop.

Finally, the last player on my roster is a MAN I HAVE NEVER MET, but he comforts me profoundly through his music, lyrics, and soul-soothing voice. His songs can cradle my heart the way mac & cheese can cradle my stomach.

For me, that person is Chris Stapleton. If you don’t know who he is, please look him up immediately!

When I need a Parachute he can make my landing from a hard day that much softer.

As LIFE (not just deployment) continues to grind on me, I like to take a drive and sing “Take Your Best Shot” at the top of my lungs while I challenge another day to try and get the best of me.

And Sometimes I Cry. And sometimes I need to Drink a Beer.

After all, we are all Just Travelers on this Earth! So we should all be traveling with the best CST on each and every road!

Your roster may have another player whose songs can transport you somewhere as you wind down another day and just let the music take away your frustration and pain. I hope you have your own Chris Stapleton—someone on your CST team you can sit on the back porch with and let them soothe your soul, your psyche, or whatever else you need to take care of.

Too many Broken Halos among us to not seek comfort.

I hope you can let that person fill your ears, your speakers, and your heart. I hope when the last note of the music drifts away, you feel the peace that is left behind.

I will leave you with the following question: Who is on your Current Situation Team?

Who are the go-to people you would want on your roster for the things you face in your life?

No matter where you are on this spectrum, RECRUIT YOUR TEAM! Find the kind of Battle Buddies, Faith Promoters, and Soul Soothers who can support you all year!

We can’t do this alone because as my man Chris would say, “We Got a Friendship,” and like my neighbor who stopped by to offer to help…


Who is on your Current Situation Team? Let us know in the comments.

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